40. God. Damn. I have to say, I don’t know if it’s the
distraction of Hurricane Sandy and returning to a cold and beaten up New York,
having just spent over a week relaxing in the Caribbean, or just that it’s been
a great year, but 40 isn’t bringing me down the way 30 did. Hallelujah!
I’m a big fan of birthdays. I love the attention (I do!),
the celebrations, and the reflection. It’s great to have an excuse to hit pause
and think about yourself—where you’ve been, where you are, and what you want
next. It’s also a great reminder of all the wonderful people, thoughts and
things that fill our lives.
Here are 40 things, in random order, that I’m happy and
grateful for.
• My health. That I can walk. That my body, nor my mind has
given up on me.
• I was born into such a loving, kickass family
• Curiosity
• Chocolate
• I still send and receive hand-written letters
• Walks along the Hudson. And the Seine.
• Netflix
• Passion
• I realized my dream of publishing a
book this year
• Milo
• High metabolism
• Soft cashmere
• My list of must-read books just keeps growing
• That it’s been over 12 years since I gave up red meat and I
don’t miss it
• I have the most amazingly thoughtful, generous, caring, fun,
goofy, smart, supportive friends
• Wanderlust
• That I get to see my parents often
• Velibs
• Back rubs
• Artists like Herbert Katzman, Didier Paquignon and Trey
Bryan
• Bands like Phoenix, The Drums, Aimee Mann, Cut Copy and
(always) The Pretenders
• Directors like Nicole Holefcener, Sofia Coppola and Terrence
Malick
• I fell in love for the first time in a
very long time
• A good Manhattan
• A good sidecar
• That I got to see my Aunt BJ
• Great conversation
• My niece and nephew are still full of
unselfconscious affection
• Yoga
• Steve Martin
• I have wonderful “families” in three amazing cities: New
York, San Francisco and Paris
• Dahlias
• That I ever started this blog
• Coffee with a sprinkle of cinnamon
• That Obama will be reelected tonight
• Magazine subscriptions
• Looking at photographs and remembering
• Splurging on something I love
• Giving to others
• Walking, exploring, noticing, discovering